Welcome to my Website 14th February 2020
My life experiences
My name is M. L. Stark, and I wrote the “Burning Desire” series based on experiences from my personal life.
For the past decades, I wanted to write a book about my life experience, from being born to becoming an adult woman. My marriage lasted for over 20 years and have adult children and grandchildren. As I was middle-aged, I got divorced and met a new man that mentally abused me.
In a flurry of lust mistaken for love with a swindler, all bets on a safe, happy life are off. I fell victim to my chase for love that engulfed me, and I couldn’t see through the love life as I was dating a sociopath.
What I didn’t know, he had swindled others throughout his entire life with his schemes and scams. Before I knew of it, I sacrificed my livelihood for this toxic adventure with the sociopath that takes us across the globe.
Little did I know as I soon became a character in the psychopath’s private horror spell as he sank into his cruel mania of deceives, abuse and lies. Financially, I was bailing him out of messes, lying on his behalf, leaving my husband and children behind, and putting my life on the line for a future that eventually catches up to me.
Later in life with my new lover, I knew I must make the tough decision to lose myself completely in love or leave the psychopath behind. While I was living in a petrifying mess, I still had the courage to help abandoned animals and support children’s causes, if needed, as it gave me the most optimistic values in life.
A mentally dark Place
In 2014, I researched about sociopathic behavior and, along with my first-hand experience dating a sociopathic man, I reflected on that entire experience.
When I moved from abroad to United Kingdom, I at first wanted the writing to be self-help, so I could get control over my distraught life again. I wanted to shed light on psychological abuse and increase awareness of the blindness in adoration and the fake love scammers and sociopaths use to mentally abuse others.
Living with a narcissist and a manipulative person is more than difficult to get through. My narcissist was not an evil killer creature, but he had a very cruel psychological agenda for me, dragging me into a mentally dark place.
In 2016, I got the courage to write some of my life experience of the double-edged sword of love, and I’m sure readers will find the line between love and manipulation is anything but clear-cut.
Achieving the goal
I love Bournemouth England, and this is where the story begins in 2016. Then Stark is backtracking the life to Spain in 2010, where she meets Drake. Life then becomes a globetrotter—first to Denmark, then Asia, Balkan and eventually back to England in 2020.
However, the series does a profound service to readers—exposing the truth of what it’s like to live and fall in love with a stop-at-nothing, callous psychopath. It’s the first series of its kind on the market.
With my story, I am hoping to connect with people and deter them from facing a toxic relationship in their lives by sharing my real-life events.
Today I live a content life in Bournemouth, United Kingdom, knowing that I’ve achieved the impossible; to write books about being a victim who survived the cruelty of abuse. Ending with:
“THE BIGGEST COWARD IS A MAN
WHO AWAKENS A WOMAN’S LOVE
WITHOUT THE INTENTION OF LOVING HER”
Check this out if you’re interested in listening to the Author online interview with TogiNet.
The sun is still shinning
Don’t forget in these tragic times that the sun is still shining out there. I wish everyone in the entire world a great recovery and great health.
Many thoughts to all who became a victim of this cruel COVID-19 virus. I deeply feel sadden for those who passed away and for their families and loved ones.
I’ve deep respect for everyone in the health care, and I’m sure they are doing everything and the best they can do. Take good care of yourself, your neighbours, and your loved ones. We all need to be there for each other. I wish you all a lovely day 🌹😘